“Don’t try to stand out in the crowd. Rather avoid them altogether,” says gapinvoid today in its image of the day. The recipe is used by some who, without realizing it in time, become codependent to isolation.
The message goes on to add a paradox: It’s hard to be of value to crowds until you learn to stand out alone. Or alone. I also agree, for on the path of personal development, independence is only an unavoidable stage to reach the maximum personal condition of success in interdependence.
We are more social today. We are exposed as never before, and the one who hides himself is evident. It is a good idea to be valuable to the crowds.
By the way: